By house_o_leaves

Welcome.

This journal is friends-only.
Why?
-I like to know who's reading my journal.
-What I write here are my most personal thoughts and I don't need a negative response to them. I trust the people on my friend's list not to be rude, to understand, and to support me.
-I don't think everyone has the right to read my private thoughts.
-I, generally, don't want people I know in my "real life," if you will, to know all my personal thoughts.


I don't add people I know in my real life. Yes, there are a few exceptions, but that's my business, so fuck off. If I know you in real life, add snapes_ragdoll. You have a far better chance of me adding you back there.

If you're not a real life person, feel free to add me to your list. There are very few times when I will not add you back.
I will not add back:
-Anyone who is rude.
-if u lyke heheheheh type lyke dis!11/1
-if U lYkE hEhEhEh tIpe LykE dIs 2!2/
-If I find you shallow and annoying or you just plainly bug me.
-If all you post are quizzes.
-If you post a bunch of quizzes outside of a lj-cut.
-If you are not open to things I might speak of. So no religious discriminators or homophobes.


In my personal opinion, I'm a very kind and caring person. I won't be rude in response to your journal entries. However, I use livejournal as an actual journal: I vent a lot, I write whatever is on my mind, I write the events of my life and day. If you have a problem with people who use livejournal as a journal then I am definately not the person you want to add. So don't bother. Sorry.

Don't add me if:
-You have problems with the opinions of others.
-You have a low religious tolerance.
-You're a homophobe.
-You think you might delete me a week or so after adding me.


Other warnings:
-I swear every other damn fucking word.
-I contemplate religious beliefs.
-I talk about ghosts, seeing auras, feeling spirits and refer to my spirit guide, Jasmine, like a real person on occasion. If you think people like that are insane, then you shouldn't add me.
-There are times when I write about suicide, cutting, depression, being ana, dieting and murder.
-There are also times when I talk about the Backstreet Boys and Harry Potter (in positive ways).
-I tend to dwell on things and refer to people by "J" or "him" for example. And, no, I will not explain who those people are. So only the very few who knew me when those things happened can understand those posts.
-I DO post quizzes. Just not obsessively.


So, yeah, basically, feel free to add me. And have a nice day.

Tata,
Mel

Edited 6/18/04.